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As a lay
teacher in a Catholic School in New York, I
believed I had the best job in the world. I got
to spend my day with children whom I loved and
teach them about God. I couldn’t think of
anything better. Well, I left my job to answer
God’s call to the consecrated life. After
several years of basic formation in religious
life and further education, I re-entered the
Catholic School, this time as a religious
sister.
In many
ways I am still the same person. I try to reach
each student and often stumble in the effort. In
other ways, something beyond my understanding
has transpired.
In the
document, Consecrated Persons and Their Mission
in Schools: Reflections and Guidelines,” the
Congregation for Catholic Education states,
There is no need for consecrated persons to
reserve exclusive tasks for themselves in
educational communities. The specificity of the
consecrated life lies in its being a sign, a
memory and prophecy of the values of the Gospel.
Its characteristic is to bring to bear on the
world of education their radical witness to the
values of the Kingdom! (Cardinal Zeron
Grocholewski, Consecrated Persons and Their
Mission in Schools: Reflections and Guidelines,
n. 20, 2002). L’Osservatore Romano, 27 Nov.
2002.
Aware of my
limitations, I have grown keenly aware of being
a “sign.” Any positive response I have received
has been because of that “sign,” because I am a
religious, not because of anything I myself have
done.
As a
religious, and in my situation, the only
religious in the school where I teach, I have
found that not only students, but parents and
other staff members have certain expectations.
As one consecrated to be a “public witness” of
the Kingdom and the life of Christ, they have a
right to their expectations. It is a call for
personal growth as a religious so that I can be
of greater service to students, parents, and
colleagues. Just as Jesus did for his disciples,
so consecrated persons live their self-giving
for the benefit of the recipients of their
mission: students, in the first place, but also
their parents and other educators. This
encourages them to live prayer and their daily
response to their following of Christ to become
an increasingly more suitable instrument for the
work that God achieves through them. (Cardinal
Zeron Grocholewski, Consecrated Persons and
Their Mission in Schools: Reflections and
Guidelines, n. 27, 2002). L’Osservatore Romano,
Nov. 2002. I have found serving as a religious
in a Catholic School to be a tremendous gift and
privilege and feel that I have already reaped
the “hundredfold” promised by our Lord.
The young
people I have had the experience of coming to
know have a tremendous longing to know what is
right and to do what is right. Often times they
are growing up in families where parents
themselves are unsure. The media influences are
tremendous for young people today and teaching
them the truths of the Catholic faith and the
call to a moral life is tantamount to asking
nothing short of heroic virtue in these young
people. Yet, that is what the youth are seeking.
As a former religion teacher of primary students
and now to junior high students, I am coming to
realize that what these souls need most is
support. For many, that means extending the
education to parents and families. The family
centered around our Lord and His teachings as
revealed through his Church needs to become a
reality for all of these young people. Children
look for this from their religious teacher, but
if they don’t experience it in the family, the
teacher can only bring that child before the
Lord in prayer. As a “sign…of the values of the
Gospel” the religious teacher can encourage
families in the same way she encourages
students, to really live all that Christ has
asked of us, to make Him the center of our
lives, to make His teachings the basis for all
our decisions and His life through the
sacraments the most sought after part of our
lives. Children often receive confusing
messages. They come to school with questions to
try to sort it out but it is within the family
that this sorting and value building essentially
occurs. The Congregation for Catholic Education
states, The family comes first in being
responsible for the education of the children.
Consecrated persons appreciate the presence of
parents in the educational community and try to
establish a true relation of reciprocity with
them. Participating bodies, personal meetings
and other initiatives are aimed are rendering
ever more active insertion of parents in the
life of institutions and for making them aware
of their educational task. Acknowledgement of
this task is more necessary today than it was in
the past, due to the many difficulties that
families now experience. (Cardinal Zeron
Grocholewski, Consecrated Persons and Their
Mission in Schools: Reflections and Guidelines,
n. 47, 2002). L’Osservatore Romano, 27 Nov.
2002.
As a
consecrated person in a Catholic School I often
find myself in a position where I can and need
to support both the child and his/her family. It
is a wonderful place to be and a mutually
nourishing relationship.
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